"Kahwin tu seumur hidup sekali, insya Allah. Apa salahnya berbelanja lebih sikit. Takkanlah kahwin sendiri pun nak berkira. Bila lagi nak pakai inai, lace, crown, duduk atas pelamin."
Ok true. Memang insya Allah kita kahwin seumur hidup sekali. Tapi perlukah berhabis-habisan kerana (kenduri) kahwin yang seumur hidup sekali tu? Bukanlah it's the marriage that is much more important than the wedding itself?
So if I choose not to spend much on the wedding, my wedding, does it means that my marriage will be blessed less than those who spend more?
This is not about what I can and couldn't afford. This is more of a matter of principe. Sometimes I think people tend to focus more on the wedding but not the life after the wedding. Which is sad.
This post is not to condemn anyone. No that's not my intention. It's just that after I got caught up in the midst of preparation and all, I came to one point and realized that where all of these leading to? If I got my oh-so-called dream wedding and then what? Feel satisfied is one thing but what's the significant behind all these?
Ok, I sound like a bride having her mid-life wedding crisis. Or whatever.