I just had to share this tidbit from Julia, for any bride who worries that everything won't turn out exactly as you've planned or envisioned:
"The only thing I had really really really always envisioned for my wedding was to wear my hair in perfect marcel and finger waves, and it unfortunately just didn't happen. I could have cried about my hair, but I just had to let it go. I found the love of my life and married him, and we had the most gorgeous and fabulous party with our family and friends from all over the world, and that is what matters. Have a vision, be flexible, prioritize, and let it go when you must. Don't lose focus on what it's really all about. Like every one told me, something (or ten things) always go wrong at the last minute. They totally did, and we lived."
- An excerpt from Snippet & Ink: Real Wedding-Julia & Brett