Being tall has its downside. Standing at 164 cm, I am considered as taller than average ladies in Malaysia. When I was in Europe, I was considered as normal. When I wore my 4" heels there, I was on par. Here, I am freaking giant.
So not funny.
I never knew that finding cute shoes with moderate height (less than 4") could be torturous. Especially when your fiance is not so keen on your wearing high heels for the fear of the bride (aka me) overshadowing the groom (aka him). Like literally. And it's not helping that all the shoes that caught my attention are those of 4" and above.
My fiance is not a hobbit, of course. Or else I won't be with him. If I were to wear a 4" heels, technically we will be almost of the same height, or 1-2" shorter than him. One thing that is problem to us is, my shoulder will be higher than those of his. If we were to stand side by side, it will be pretty obvious.
I was blessed with long lean legs whilst H with long torso and neck. Tapi bukan long neck yang ini la. It's like what we lack in ourselves we make up for each other. Or something. Boleh?
I pray that my kids will be beautifully proportioned. Amin.
Back to the shoes, when I saw one that fits my criteria of sling back, grey coloured, moderate amount of blings and most importantly less than 4", I without hesitate bought it.
Now I, like every women on earth, am having doubts about it. It's not exactly my dream shoes. Oddly enough it still fits all the criteria. But I am having second thought. I don't know, should I re-sell it and buy a new pair or should I just wear it without thinking too much?
It's just a shoe after all.