On the day that my dear husband is leaving, I read the post that was beautifully written by this lady. Reading through the words, I feel like having a deja vu because there they were - words by words, the thought that has been boggling in my mind for at least 2 months. It's like all these while, she has been reading my mind and pour its content in a way that I cannot seem be able to express.
Yes, I think by now you can already gauge and guess based on this entry and this. We are now in a (temporary) long-distance relationship (LDR).
It's funny when you think about it cos my husband particularly was never a fan of such LDR. Neither do I. Or the rest of the LDR couples. It's not a choice by any chance.
Now it's a different situation. My husband recently was offered a new job which required him to undergo training & relocate to a place 10,000 km away from home for nearly 2 years. And it's not conveniently within reachable distance. I have no qualm about the job offer. I know that it's something that he wanna do since the beginning so I'm totally happy for him.
It has been a week. I am still trying to adjust the fact that I need to be on my own 2 feet again. Not that I haven't been but you know, marriage somehow takes the independent side of you, a bit. So, here I am managing my household alone. Meaning, I have to do all the housework alone and it's not fun! There's gonna be no Cinderella. Sobs.
Maybe I'll follow soon or maybe I won't. This situation will be hard but I believe in Allah, for He knows what is the best for us. And in the mean time, we'll work something that's best for us. Insya Allah.