tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post2431386267380470407..comments2024-03-25T11:06:32.536+01:00Comments on Moose On The Loose: Seven DaysMoosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04960929957366907469noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-58557039979716990442011-10-15T15:31:17.780+02:002011-10-15T15:31:17.780+02:00be though moose~ pray whats best for both of you ;...be though moose~ pray whats best for both of you ;)The wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00373640719734275228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-21699388935636386072011-10-14T12:58:02.229+02:002011-10-14T12:58:02.229+02:00Moose, I have beem in a long distance relationship...Moose, I have beem in a long distance relationship for 7 years plus and I thought a long distance marriage is no big deal. Alah, he works in Melaka only and we've been used to seeing each other during weekends only, so what's the big deal?<br /><br />Or so I thought. <br /><br />I didn't really understand until I got married myself. The first time he had to go back, I literally cried and cried. Such a crybaby I know but being married is different.<br /><br />Now, it isn't as bad as the first time. No more cries but at times, I do wish things were not the way it is now. <br /><br />I always wonder what if I quit or what if he quits and transfer to KL? <br /><br />But then again, both of us are not ready to quit and make that sacrifice. He's doing so well over there, I'm doing well here so why temper with that?<br /><br />In the end, we made that choice. I wish to be with him but I don't want to lose my independence. To be able to earn my own money and buy things I want for myself without having to depend on him. <br /><br />Maybe I'll change my mind once when I have kids.The Spasmodic Scribblerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15684479277492145049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-21340495175832146052011-10-14T11:21:59.613+02:002011-10-14T11:21:59.613+02:00marriage indeed takes the independence in us! we, ...marriage indeed takes the independence in us! we, the wives mostly become so manja and so dependant on the husbands. my prayers that you will have all the strength to go through this. do look on the bright side and keep yourself busy. we're all here to keep you company ;)Syahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05991708119122602249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-22703896324033352182011-10-14T08:50:07.601+02:002011-10-14T08:50:07.601+02:00here i was, wondering why in the world my site sta...here i was, wondering why in the world my site stats increased by 3 folds?!<br /><br />haha.<br /><br />thanks for the kind words *wipe tears*<br /><br />after almost 2 years together, waving goodbye to him is still hard. i can't smile as i usually would the week before he schedules to leave. rasa berat hati sangat.<br /><br />before i met him, boleh je pulak kan hidup seperti biasa. haha.<br /><br />and i have cried myself to sleep before and i doubt it'll get better.<br /><br />Qistin is right, we should never get used to it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-72219396809378919982011-10-14T06:01:36.739+02:002011-10-14T06:01:36.739+02:00Totally agree with "Marriage somehow takes th...Totally agree with "Marriage somehow takes the independent side of you", especially when he's around - suddenly semua benda need his assistance.<br /><br />I know it's about 'getting use to' but honestly, I don't want to get use to it. The distance, the lengthy absence. I'm sappy everytime he started packing. EVERYTIME. <br /><br />And I wish in years to come - I'm still sappy about it.Qistin Fadzinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09287002760005095724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-69734320281916054222011-10-14T06:00:05.632+02:002011-10-14T06:00:05.632+02:00This comment has been removed by the author.Qistin Fadzinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09287002760005095724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-9539187538657665692011-10-14T05:57:42.725+02:002011-10-14T05:57:42.725+02:00hang in there moose.i went through this for 3 year...hang in there moose.i went through this for 3 years!nasib ade skype.if i gotta choose,mmg tak nak dah hehe.Amihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00379701407454060490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7678852772916926190.post-62358586620166311742011-10-14T03:38:54.150+02:002011-10-14T03:38:54.150+02:00same T__T I was in LDR for 8 years and LDM came af...same T__T I was in LDR for 8 years and LDM came afterwards. I always dirundung kesedihan. Ganbaremashou!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06874496302893586007noreply@blogger.com